The story itself is fascinating, but some of the illustrations?
WHOA. 👀
My six-year-old loved it.
But that doesn't mean I'd recommend it to every six-year-old.
And with October here, I know a lot of us are encountering books and stories with some pretty intense imagery and themes.
Which brings me to something I've been thinking about as my boys get older.
I don't believe every book marketed to children is automatically appropriate for my children.
But I ALSO don't think every book that makes us uncomfortable is necessarily a book we should avoid.
There's a difference between a story that introduces difficult history, one that creates suspense, and one that explores themes our family has chosen not to engage with.
And there's a difference between a child who's ready to process something challenging and one who's going to be genuinely frightened by it.
So rather than asking only, "What age is this book recommended for?"
I'm learning to ask:
What is this book actually asking my child to encounter?
And is my child ready for that?
I want my boys to encounter challenging ideas, ask questions, and learn to think critically. But I also want to know what they're reading and be available to help them process it.
Sometimes that means reading alongside them. Sometimes it means waiting a few years. And sometimes it means deciding a book simply isn't right for our family.
Our goal isn't to read everything. It's to choose thoughtfully. ❤️
Speaking of books that deserve a closer look...I've got three of the more intense Tuttle Twins titles in Book Corner this week. And these are DEFINTELY ones I'd encourage you to preview first. 😂
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BOOK CORNER: Tuttle Twins Favorites (that ARE scary)
This week, we're talking about the more intense Tuttle Twins books.
Some of our kids are looking for a little more intensity as they get older. It's one reason my boys love Nathan Hale's Hazardous Tales, and I don't necessarily think that's a bad thing.
I do think it's worth knowing what they're reading, though. There's a difference between a child who's ready to explore difficult subjects through a book and one who's going to be genuinely frightened by them.
These three have been hits in our house, but they're definitely books I'd encourage you to preview for your particular kiddo.
The story itself is really cool. It takes the big, abstract idea of the Leviathan — a powerful, ever-growing government — and turns it into something kids can actually picture and discuss.
That's something I appreciate about these books. They take ideas that can be difficult even for adults to wrap their heads around and give kids a story to help them understand the author's perspective.
BUT THE ILLUSTRATIONS.
Some of them are genuinely intense.
I wasn't sure I wanted my 6-year-old looking at this one, but he enjoyed it. And honestly? If this had been my oldest at six, I probably would have said, "Absolutely not." 😂
Apparently, moms change a little as their kids get older.
So while the story has been a hit here, I'd definitely flip through the illustrations before handing it to a sensitive reader.
BEST FOR OLDER KIDS & TEENS — PARENT PREVIEW RECOMMENDED
Okay. This one is INTENSE.
It explores documented historical conspiracies, including government programs in which people were subjected to mind-altering drugs without informed consent.
Yes, that really happened. The CIA's MKULTRA program is one documented example.
And while I don't particularly enjoy reading about things like that, I do think there's value in our kids learning that institutions and people in positions of authority can abuse their power.
I want my boys to learn to ask questions, examine evidence, and recognize that an official explanation isn't automatically the whole story.
But I also want them to understand the difference between a documented conspiracy and a theory that hasn't been proven. That's an important distinction, too.
This isn't a lighthearted book I'd hand to a young child. It's one I'd want to discuss with my older boys, especially because some of the material involves real people being harmed.
For a kid who's interested in history, government, and investigating how we know something is true, it could open up some substantial conversations.
This one comes from the Choose Your Consequence series, where your decisions determine which direction the story takes.
And this one? Think post-apocalyptic survival.
It has that Mad Max sort of atmosphere, where the world has become dangerous and the characters have to make difficult decisions to survive.
People get shot. People die.
So when I say this is one of the intense Tuttle Twins books, I mean it.
My boys love these choose-your-path stories, and I can see why. They get to think through decisions, experience the consequences, and go back to see what might have happened if they'd chosen differently.
But I wouldn't call this universally safe just because it's a children's book.
This is absolutely one to preview. If your kid enjoys survival stories, high stakes, and difficult choices, it may be right up their alley. If they're sensitive to violence or death, I'd hold off.
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