#55 - That second-guessing feeling?

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Feature Story: The Third Option

Yesterday morning…
before you even got out of bed…
your brain probably started running.

Going over the plan.
Thinking through the day.
Replaying what didn’t quite work last week.

And somewhere in there—

that second-guessing starts creeping in.

👉 “Should I change something?”
👉 “Is this even working?”
👉 “Am I missing something?”


And you keep going.
You always do.
But that doesn’t mean it feels clear.


I keep thinking about my bar muscle up last week at Crossfit.
I was SO close.
I could feel it.

But after 20+ attempts, bruising my sternum on the bar, getting more and more tired…

I couldn’t tell if I was actually getting closer—
or just repeating the same thing over and over.


So I grabbed my coach.

Because I needed someone outside of it to say:
👉 “Here’s what you’re not seeing.”
And it wasn’t a big overhaul.
It was a small shift.

But it was the difference between STAYING STUCK…
and finally getting over the bar.

That’s what I want to be for you.

Genuinely.


I know the moms who read this newsletter.

I know how hard you’re trying.

You are doing so much more right than you think you are.

But doing this alone?

Makes everything feel heavier than it needs to be.

You don’t need more effort.

Please read that again...

You don’t need more effort.

You need:

👉 someone to help you see clearly
👉 someone to help you adjust in real time
👉 someone in your corner while you’re in the middle of it


That’s exactly why I created the Confident Homeschool Moms Club.

Not a course to keep up with.

NOT something that adds more to your plate.

Just simple, consistent support:

  • a weekly reset to help you stay grounded
  • a monthly call where you can ask real questions
  • a space where you’re not the only one figuring this out

Because clarity leads to progress.

And when you have both?

You stop spiraling every hard day.

You don’t need to keep doing this alone.

It’s $19/month right now.

That launch rate goes up to $27—but once you’re in, you’re locked in.


If you’ve been feeling that pressure
that second-guessing…
that “I think I’m close but I don’t know what to change” feeling—this is your place.

Come let me be in your corner 💛


THIS WEEK’S FEATURE TOOL

The Confident Homeschool Moms Club

If this week already feels like it’s starting with pressure…
and you can feel that second-guessing creeping in—

this is exactly where things change.

Not by giving you more to do.

But by giving you:

👉 a place to bring what’s actually happening
👉 someone to help you see what you can’t
👉 support while you’re in the middle of it

Inside the Club, you get:

  • a simple weekly reset to stay grounded
  • a monthly call for real-time clarity
  • a space where you don’t have to figure this out alone

Because you don’t need another plan.

You need support while you’re living it.

Launch rate — goes up to $27 on May 1st


FROM MY DESK

Something I’ve noticed—both in the gym and at home—
the moment right before something clicks…
usually feels the most frustrating.

It’s the part where you’re trying, adjusting, showing up…

and still not quite seeing the result yet.

That’s the moment where it’s easiest to think:

👉 “Maybe this isn’t working.”

But most of the time?
It’s not that NOTHING'S working.
You just can’t see what needs to shift yet.

And sometimes, one small shift is all it takes to turn that corner.

That’s the part support changes.
Not by doing it for you—
but by helping you see what’s already there.


COMMUNITY BOARD

Come Meet with Me In-Person

Oregon Park Meetup Days

FREE

We had our first week of park meetups—and it was so fun.

Seeing familiar faces, meeting a few new families, and just letting the kids run around while we got to breathe and talk for a bit… it felt really good.

If you’re local and have been wanting something simple like that, I’d love for you to come join us.

We’re meeting:

👉 Tuesdays in Wilsonville
👉 Wednesdays in Hillsboro

These are super low-key.

No pressure.
No need to have anything figured out.
Just come as you are and let the kids play.

If you want the schedule and reminders, you can grab all the details here:

👉 Get the Meetups Details

I’d love to see you there. 💛


Washington Homeschool Organization In-Person Workshop Conference
July 18, 2026
Federal Way, WA

This one-day conference brings homeschool families together for practical workshops, encouragement, and connection with other parents walking the same path.

I’ll be leading a session called:

Let’s Calm the Chaos and Create a Calm, Doable Homeschool Routine
If your homeschool days feel reactive or overwhelming, this workshop will help you reset your approach and build a routine that actually works for your family.

Learn more or register here


Brave Heart Free Mind Conference
📍 Wilsonville, OR
📅 September 19, 2026

This is one of those spaces that feels different.

Not about doing more or fixing yourself—but about coming back to who you already are underneath the weight of everything you’ve been carrying.

I’ll be speaking at this event, and if you’ve been feeling even the smallest pull toward something deeper… I want to invite you into this room.

Because sometimes what we need isn’t another plan—

It’s space to reconnect with ourselves.

👉 Learn more or save your seat here

Early bird pricing ends June 30th.


BOOK CORNER


🏝️ Swiss Family Robinson
AGES 5–13

This is just a really sweet adventure story.

There’s some mild peril (enough to keep it interesting), but what stands out more is how much learning is woven in — survival skills, problem-solving, using what you have.

It was originally written by a dad for his kids, and you can feel that. There’s a steady thread of character, resilience, and resourcefulness throughout the story.

It’s not fast-paced or flashy — but it’s rich in a way that sticks.

A great fit if you want something adventurous that still builds good thinking and strong character.


🌙 Where the Sidewalk Ends by Shel Silverstein
AGES 6–14

Since April is National Poetry Month, this felt like the perfect one to pull out.

Yes, I love the classics like Ralph Waldo Emerson and Emily Dickinson — but there’s something special about how fun Shel Silverstein makes poetry.

It’s silly, bouncy, and just weird enough to pull kids in.

This is the kind of poetry that gets kids laughing… and without realizing it, they’re building rhythm, language, and a feel for words.

An easy, low-pressure way to bring poetry into your home.


🌸 The Big Book of Blooms
AGES 3–12

With spring here and May right around the corner, this is such a fun one to grab from the library.

It’s visually stunning — the kind of book kids will flip through just because it’s beautiful — but it’s also packed with interesting facts about all kinds of flowers.

This is one of those books you leave out and let it do its thing.

Perfect for curious kids, nature lovers, or anyone who enjoys slowing down and noticing the details.


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